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How do I cope with stress at work?

Work stress happens when the demands of your job outweigh the time, resources or control you have to meet them. It can show up as dread, irritability, poor sleep, headaches, trouble switching off and feeling constantly behind. Short bursts are normal. Long-term work stress can lead to burnout, so it’s worth addressing early, both in the job and in how you recover.

Work stress happens when the demands of your job outweigh the time, resources or control you have to meet them. It can show up as dread, irritability, poor sleep, headaches, trouble switching off and feeling constantly behind. Short bursts are normal. Long-term work stress can lead to burnout, so it’s worth addressing early, both in the job and in how you recover.

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Does this feel familiar?

  • You check your inbox before you’ve even got out of bed.

  • Your manager’s name pops up on Teams and your heart rate jumps.

  • You’ve eaten lunch at your desk every day this month.

  • You lie awake rewriting tomorrow’s presentation in your head.

What might be going on

Work stress usually comes from a few things: too much to do, too little control over how you do it, unclear expectations, difficult relationships or a lack of support. The more of these that apply, the harder it gets.

When stress never switches off, your body stays on alert, which affects sleep, digestion, mood and energy. Over time, that can turn into burnout.

Help can work on both sides. Coaching or therapy can support boundaries, conversations and decisions about your job, while body-based practices help you actually recover between the busy days.

One small thing. Just for today.

Pick a time to close your laptop tonight, tell one person, and stick to it.

Let’s untangle a few assumptions

Stress is just part of the job.

Stress is just part of the job.

If you can’t handle the pressure, you’re in the wrong job.

If you can’t handle the pressure, you’re in the wrong job.

You just need to switch off after work.

You just need to switch off after work.

Support can look different

An approach you might not have considered

An approach you might not have considered

A different way in

A different way in

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A little perspective

The Health and Safety Executive estimated that 16.4 million working days were lost in Great Britain in 2023/24 because of work-related stress, depression or anxiety.

Questions you might be asking

What are the signs of stress at work?

What are the signs of stress at work?

How do I manage stress at work?

How do I manage stress at work?

Can I be signed off work for stress?

Can I be signed off work for stress?

Should I talk to my manager about stress?

Should I talk to my manager about stress?

Does my employer offer wellbeing support?

Does my employer offer wellbeing support?

When to get medical help

See your GP if work stress is affecting your sleep, mood or health for more than a couple of weeks. They can sign you off if needed and talk through support. If you’re having thoughts of harming yourself, call Samaritans free on 116 123.

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Find support that fits you

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